As I’m sure any parent of a toddler (especially a potty training toddler) can relate, road trips suck. What used to take a 3 hour drive to visit family has now turned into a 5 hour trip with multiple stops, pee breaks on the side of the road, spilled drinks, and the dinosaur dance on repeat just to keep the car happy. Don’t get me wrong, there are some fun sing along times and eye spy games. But for the most part I am simply waiting until we get to our destination so I can open up that bottle of wine and work on the next challenge of dealing with bedtime in a new place.
Today, however, I hit a new milestone in my marriage on our return trip from a weekend away visiting family. Bee-boo has discovered a new love of peeing in the grass, so every 20 minutes or so she wanted to stop and go pee. She wasn’t peeing in her pants so we were happy to oblige. She also now finds it hilarious every time she toots, and at this moment was laughing and saying “I tooted!!” She then said she need to pee again. However on this 5th pee stop, which of course was also mommy’s turn to get out with her, as I pulled down her pants I discovered that I was also smearing poop all down her legs and all over me. So picture this…I’m squatting on the side of the highway holding bee-boo by the arms as she’s squatting with her feet on my feet, pants around her ankles and poop everywhere. I physically cannot move without more poop going everywhere. I shift my weight and am able to bang on the car with my foot in the hopes of my dear husband coming to our rescue with baby wipes and clean clothes.
This is where my marriage milestone came in. In this poop covered moment, we were a team, totally in sync. Nothing had to be said. Each knew what had to be done. And after a half a box of wipes, and clothes in a poop bag going to the trash (there are some things just not worth saving), we were back on the road. And all we could do was laugh. And I realized that this situation could have been a lot different if I had have been sharing it with someone else. I was so in love with my husband at that moment. These past few years have been tough. Really tough. We’ve been through a lot together and my husband has been my rock through some pretty dark days. But I feel like I can finally see that light at the end of the tunnel lately. And knowing that I have my best friend beside me who I can laugh with through the literally shitty times, makes things a little less scary.